in naame ee ke az ye doste ghadimi alan naghle ghol kardam ba on naame ee ke too poste ghabli goftam ba didane ye film yadesh oftadam o... fargh mikone ha!!! hezar mashala shaaki ziad daram!!!
Most people have beautiful hearts, but they just close the doors and don't let the others have a complete feel of it. Moreover, most complex problems have simple solutions. Just change your view. Simply one sunny day, quit all your works, and ask him to do so (don't tell him anything more). Then both go to a private place, and ask him just to listen. Start shouting at him. Then let him shout at you. I promise all your pains will be removed. If you are still friends, you can forget the remains of your problems thoroughly and begin a new relationship. Shouting removes major problems, which are highly annoying, and good friends forgive minors. Besides, a good shouting proves nothing but LOVE. Accumulated problems kill the relationship, and love is the solution of big problems.
Ba arze salam khedmate doste “anonymous” aziz. (zaheran mod shode ke dostan be sorate nashenas peigham mizaran, hala chera…. Khoda aleme!) jesaratan bande dochare ye tanaghoze falsafi shodam! Shoma goftid “a good shouting proves nothing but LOVE.” Mamnoon misham begid daghighan in yani chi?! Ba in tarife shoma, barkhi az azizane kheteye khani abado, nazi abado… ashegh tarin ensan haye iran hastan ya kargarane sakhtemanie sharif, az keshvare shahid parvare Afghanestan ham jozve oshaghe sine chak be hesab mian, chon ba faryad haye asheghanashon shishe haye manzele maro miterekonan!! Man fekr nemikonam “shouting” valo az noe khobesh neshone eshgh bashe, va hata be tarafein in emkan ro ham mide ke hormat haro kheili rahatar beshkonan! Be nazare man, in “shouting” az borozate khashm ya kine hast va har do mitonan mantegh va ehsase adam ro kor mikonan! Va bad nist in noktaro ham ezafe konam ke, dostane samimi, kheili kheili kheili be nodrat kari mikonan ke az ham khashmgin shan ya kine be del begiran, ta badesh be ghole shoma majbor shan bian sare ham dad bekeshan ta arom shano eshgh biad to ertebateshon!!!chon be eteghade man dostane vagheyi, ke asheghane hamdigaro dos daran, ba hamin eshgh, hame tanaghozat ro hal mikonan, bedone inke to ye jaye khalvat sare ham dad bekeshan!
va Dear Anonymous jan: sorry vali garche raveshe pishnehadito bara kheili az mavared be onvane ye raveshe besyar moaser ghabol daram ama man shakhsan nemitonam azash estefade konam ye jora ee jor dar nemiad. man ba dad zadan ya hata kotak zadan e digaran asabaniatam abadan khali nemishe!
Hamidreza, emaileto bede ta barat befrestam. Laleh jan, har tor ke asabanyatet khali mishe khalish kon. va az tarafe moghabeletam bepors ke chetor asabanyatesh khali mishe va ejaze bede onam khodesho khali kone. ravesh mohem nist. mohem dar darajeye aval jologiri az be vojod omadane in halate. va dovom, az bein bordane in halat hast. ta tarafeyn ba zarfyate jadid va bishtar rabetaro edame bedan va astaneye pazireshe khatashon balatar bere ta dar toole zaman ba mavared barkhorde monasebo dashte bashan.
Albate in ravesham hamishe sadegh nist. Hade aghal bayad yeki az tarafeyn normal bashan ke beshe ejrash kard (chon age yeki too rabete be aramesh berese, zarfyatesh balatar mire va mishe rabetaro behtar control kard). Normal nabodan yani masalan modele man ine ke besyar be nodrat az daste kasi asabany misham ama vaghty asabany besham ba riz riz kardane tarafamam asabanyatam khali nemishe. Bazia bishaz hade zarfyateshon tahamol mikonan va bad bazgasht be halate avalye vasashon sakht tar az afrade aadi mishe. Shayad akhlaghe dorosty nabashe, ama be har hal motmaenan inam raveshi dare.
salam: na, raveshe arbade keshi ro anjam nadadam. javab ham nemide chon aslan too hich kodom az moshkelaty ke ba digaran daram khashm vojod nadare (joz ye mored ke onam tarjih midam beram zire charkhe tereili ta saresh dad bekesham!) dar natije rahe hal haye "anger oriented" aslan rabty be moshkelate man nadare mage inke dostam asabani bashan ke dar on sorat ghadameshon roo cheshm bian har chi dost daran dad bezanano fohsh bedano bado biraah baaram konan!!
afarin. khosham omad. manam in ravesho aslan ghabol nadaram. goftam nakone shoma be harfe in doostan goosh dade bashid ke khoda ro shokr in tor naboode. ishalla ke ba tadabire khodeton moshkeleton hal shde bashe. shad bashid.
Most people have beautiful hearts, but they just close the doors and don't let the others have a complete feel of it. Moreover, most complex problems have simple solutions. Just change your view.
ReplyDeleteSimply one sunny day, quit all your works, and ask him to do so (don't tell him anything more). Then both go to a private place, and ask him just to listen. Start shouting at him. Then let him shout at you. I promise all your pains will be removed. If you are still friends, you can forget the remains of your problems thoroughly and begin a new relationship. Shouting removes major problems, which are highly annoying, and good friends forgive minors. Besides, a good shouting proves nothing but LOVE.
Accumulated problems kill the relationship, and love is the solution of big problems.
Ba arze salam khedmate doste “anonymous” aziz. (zaheran mod shode ke dostan be sorate nashenas peigham mizaran, hala chera…. Khoda aleme!) jesaratan bande dochare ye tanaghoze falsafi shodam! Shoma goftid “a good shouting proves nothing but LOVE.” Mamnoon misham begid daghighan in yani chi?! Ba in tarife shoma, barkhi az azizane kheteye khani abado, nazi abado… ashegh tarin ensan haye iran hastan ya kargarane sakhtemanie sharif, az keshvare shahid parvare Afghanestan ham jozve oshaghe sine chak be hesab mian, chon ba faryad haye asheghanashon shishe haye manzele maro miterekonan!!
ReplyDeleteMan fekr nemikonam “shouting” valo az noe khobesh neshone eshgh bashe, va hata be tarafein in emkan ro ham mide ke hormat haro kheili rahatar beshkonan! Be nazare man, in “shouting” az borozate khashm ya kine hast va har do mitonan mantegh va ehsase adam ro kor mikonan!
Va bad nist in noktaro ham ezafe konam ke, dostane samimi, kheili kheili kheili be nodrat kari mikonan ke az ham khashmgin shan ya kine be del begiran, ta badesh be ghole shoma majbor shan bian sare ham dad bekeshan ta arom shano eshgh biad to ertebateshon!!!chon be eteghade man dostane vagheyi, ke asheghane hamdigaro dos daran, ba hamin eshgh, hame tanaghozat ro hal mikonan, bedone inke to ye jaye khalvat sare ham dad bekeshan!
Dear Hamidreza,
ReplyDeleteThank u for the questions. The answer will be so long, and I think the weblog has not enough space to put long texts.
...so i would appricate if you gave me the "long" answer in my email address.
ReplyDeleteHamid jan khob bizahmat email adresetam midadi!! in bande khoda be koja email bezane?!?!
ReplyDeleteva Dear Anonymous jan:
ReplyDeletesorry vali garche raveshe pishnehadito bara kheili az mavared be onvane ye raveshe besyar moaser ghabol daram ama man shakhsan nemitonam azash estefade konam ye jora ee jor dar nemiad. man ba dad zadan ya hata kotak zadan e digaran asabaniatam abadan khali nemishe!
Hamidreza, emaileto bede ta barat befrestam.
ReplyDeleteLaleh jan, har tor ke asabanyatet khali mishe khalish kon. va az tarafe moghabeletam bepors ke chetor asabanyatesh khali mishe va ejaze bede onam khodesho khali kone. ravesh mohem nist. mohem dar darajeye aval jologiri az be vojod omadane in halate. va dovom, az bein bordane in halat hast. ta tarafeyn ba zarfyate jadid va bishtar rabetaro edame bedan va astaneye pazireshe khatashon balatar bere ta dar toole zaman ba mavared barkhorde monasebo dashte bashan.
Albate in ravesham hamishe sadegh nist. Hade aghal bayad yeki az tarafeyn normal bashan ke beshe ejrash kard (chon age yeki too rabete be aramesh berese, zarfyatesh balatar mire va mishe rabetaro behtar control kard).
ReplyDeleteNormal nabodan yani masalan modele man ine ke besyar be nodrat az daste kasi asabany misham ama vaghty asabany besham ba riz riz kardane tarafamam asabanyatam khali nemishe.
Bazia bishaz hade zarfyateshon tahamol mikonan va bad bazgasht be halate avalye vasashon sakht tar az afrade aadi mishe. Shayad akhlaghe dorosty nabashe, ama be har hal motmaenan inam raveshi dare.
chashm lale jan, emailemonam midim, hala chera mizani?! inam adrese Gmaile bande, khedmate doste anonymous azizemon:
ReplyDeletearabi.hamidreza
salam. migam belakhare che kardid ba in dooste ghadimi? be tosie haye doostan goosh dadid ke berid ye ja va saresh dad bekeshid ya na?
ReplyDeletesalam:
ReplyDeletena, raveshe arbade keshi ro anjam nadadam. javab ham nemide chon aslan too hich kodom az moshkelaty ke ba digaran daram khashm vojod nadare (joz ye mored ke onam tarjih midam beram zire charkhe tereili ta saresh dad bekesham!) dar natije rahe hal haye "anger oriented" aslan rabty be moshkelate man nadare mage inke dostam asabani bashan ke dar on sorat ghadameshon roo cheshm bian har chi dost daran dad bezanano fohsh bedano bado biraah baaram konan!!
afarin. khosham omad. manam in ravesho aslan ghabol nadaram. goftam nakone shoma be harfe in doostan goosh dade bashid ke khoda ro shokr in tor naboode. ishalla ke ba tadabire khodeton moshkeleton hal shde bashe. shad bashid.
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